The Christmas season is upon us, and inevitably, celebrations abound. It’s the one time of year where people can come together with their loved ones and enjoy the festivities, and no matter where they’re from – whether it’s from a non-denominational church in Dubai or a traditional church from wherever else – as long as the belief and joy in Jesus Christ’s birth is present, then fun and togetherness is all but guaranteed.
Unfortunately, this is not true for everybody. While Christmas is customarily known to be a joyous occasion, sometimes certain things prevent us from enjoying it to the fullest – oftentimes, these distractions even go as far as to detract us from the true meaning of Christmas – which is of course, the birth of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
Christmas can be both a wonderful and terrible affair depending on who you’re with, but that’s just the problem – it shouldn’t be that way. Ideally, this season should be enjoyable, after all, Jesus Christ brings everyone along. However, sometimes the moment we get together with our friends and family, instead of being ecstatic and looking forward to the time we’ll finally get to spend with them, we end up feeling like we have to “deal with them” instead.
Our supposedly joyous thoughts are clouded with the problems they’ve brought with them, how we can’t control their actions and prevent conflict, or even how they set expectations we can never meet. But if one looks closely, the problem actually lies in us ourselves – we’re the ones who bring up our own problems, we’re the ones who can’t control ourselves, and most especially – we’re the ones who set expectations others can’t meet.
That said, we have to learn not to center this event on ourselves and the people around us. We have to stop concentrating so much on what’s happening, but rather, we must focus our attention more on what happened – again, the birth of Christ – and its significance to the human race.
Centering Life on Jesus
By centering our life on Jesus instead of the scattered happenings around us, we end up centralizing on something stable; something that can be counted on. Jesus is hopeful, someone who can give us purpose; He takes away the fears we have. In addition, by centering our life on Him, Christmas becomes much brighter as we are reminded that he is for us, watching over us, celebrating with us.
The darker and more complicated things get, take comfort in the fact that we’re able to focus on the light of the world that makes a sensible difference in each of our lives.
At the start of the new testament, followers like Matthew, Mark, and Luke talk about the birth of Jesus Christ. Curiously, John does not – not directly, anyway. Rather than describe his birth in detail, he describes its significance instead.
John 1:4-5 states that:
“In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”
Despite living in desperately rough times, John was able to see the light and never lose faith. Early on he was able to realize that Jesus was a kind of life that transcended the physical, which is supported by the following verses:
According to John 20:30-31:
“Jesus performed many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not recorded in this book. But these are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.”
Jesus is the light
Again, Jesus is the reason we celebrate Christmas – not the people around us. He is the bright light in the darkness; no matter what we face – be it strong heart ache, extreme fear, or a deep depression – he will be there to guide us. And no matter how hard the world tries to envelop Him in darkness, He will always shine through; ready to give us hope and a reason to believe; He’s always there to listen to our prayers and He gives us reason to wake up each day and take that next step.